Friday, 18 November 2011

Should I give a woman flowers on a second date?

We have talked on line and on the phone. we met in person today for lunch, and spent the whole afternoon toghter. It went great ! I know she's gonna be my girlfriend, the chemistry was there! We have made plans to see each other on saturday early like 3:30pm. Should I take her flowers or just show up? I don;t want to come off pushy..yet she's very reseptive toeverytning so far.

Should I give a woman flowers on a second date?
If I were her, I would love flowers. That sounds so thoughtful and sweet, not to mention a pretty gift to look at!
Reply:keep it simple id say take a single rose assortments of flowers are more like a anniversary thing
Reply:What a romantic thing to do! Picture it! She's dressed and waiting, listening for your knock. She hears you, opens the door, and is surprised and delighted at your flowery tribute. She gives you a smile you'd walk a mile for, you hand her the blossoms, and -- then what?





There she stands, all dressed and ready to go out, stuck with a handful of drippy cut flowers. Unless there is someone else in her home willing to deal with the messy thing, she is IT. Perhaps she had planned on leaving immediately, but now she must either invite you in or leave you on the doorstep while she at the very least finds some sort of container suitable for keeping your gift in water for several hours. If she wants to actually put the things in a vase, she's has quite a little task before her.





I'm sure you see my point. Get a cheap vase at a Salvation Army or 99 Cent store, prepare the flowers yourself, and hand her a ready to display vase. Now THAT shows you to be a thoughtful fellow, something a lady values much more than a fellow who is merely willing to drop a few bucks at a flower stall.





Here is a short guide on how to cut and arrange flowers. http://www.realsimple.com/realsimple/con...


If traveling with water in the vase is the problem, wrap the stem ends in very wet toweling to minimize drips and spills.


Good luck with the new romance!
Reply:yea why not? girls love getting flowers.
Reply:you're the best. yes, give her flowers. she will be so happy and surprised.
Reply:You say it went well on the first date or on the phone...what was something she talked about that you could show her that you heard her say...and bring something related to that...it shows that you were really listening...flowers are a great "I'm sorry" thing to do...not all women fall down for flowers...not me cause I love plants too much to see great flowers cut and die...so for me an awesome plant would be something I would prefer...so don't just do the expected norm...find something that makes you unique in the here is something special just for you....
Reply:i think its okay to give flowers in the second date but you sure she also likes flowers like all the girls b/c for me m not really into flowers..m a girl also but different girls have different personality...but i think its better than not giving anything.
Reply:take her flowers she will love it!
Reply:If the feeling is there, then flowers would be lovely,nothing too flashy.I'm sure her eyes will glow and you'll make her feel very special indeed.Flowers aren't pushy,it just means you're thinking of her.Best of Luck.
Reply:This is what you do man and it will deff work. Call her when you show up to her house and make sure the flowers are in the backseat. When she comes in the car give her a compliment and throw this in with it like for example "hey you look great but I need you to go inside". And she will be like why whats up and be like its not you but I need you to put these in water. Then BAMMM show her the flowers and you are set my man.


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